Dear Rick and Carly

Is this cheating? Vanessa in Meridian has received an "invitation" of sorts! Should she take it and should she tell her husband?

Vanessa e-mailed this to us.

Dear Rick and Carly, 

i'm a hockey mom of two sons ages 11 and 13. I spend several days a week at Idaho Ice World while my husband works close to 60 hours a week. Earlier this season, I met a father whose sons play on my sons' teams. We have developed a close bond over the hockey. Last Monday, he asked me out to lunch. Is it wrong that I accepted it? Should I tell my husband?

Vanessa

Ladies, what do you think? Does this classify as cheating? Should she tell her husband? What should she do about future interactions with this man?